Are Dominatrix Only Interested by Money ?
A lack of understanding or communication?
Are you a Dominatrix only interested by Money, Mistress ? Since I practice, I no longer count this question …
-Are you venal Mistress? 
-I am looking for non-venal dominatrixes
The world of female domination seems to be tainted by this “venal” spirit, as if all dominatrix only think about money or that we only seek to practice slaughter, hiding noticeably an immeasurable hatred of man and his phallus. 
I will therefore share my point of view in the face of this remark that I can understand but which seems to me at the limit of reasonable when these are the first words coming out of your mouth before even the slightest presentation…
Dominatrix and Money, Reality or not ?
Firstly, and for start, this seems to escape a lot of you but… A Domina is above all… a Woman… I won’t philosophize on the subject though.
Indeed, those who know me know that I put a lot of passion and that I like to practice BDSM.
And that is also the reason why I am writing these lines now.
Asking for an offering for the realization of a session does not seem to me to be incompatible with passion, quite the contrary. I consider that earning money by practicing your passion is an achievement in itself. Some of you (who have never seen me by the way) have already told me that I only see the money in it and that, therefore, I do not practice out of passion… and that I was not “nice” Well then…
It’s a thought that will always make me smile. In this case, when we find a mechanic who is passionate about his job, would he change a belt for free? A doctor, a free consultation? So would we bring in a passionate plumber to fix our leak for free?
Generally, of course not. Well, I don’t understand why it’s an eternal question that we are asked on the dominatrix side… Because, doing your job with passion is one thing. Evidently do one’s job without asking for feedback is to be submissive to others and this is a totally inapplicable paradox that you don’t seem to consider.
The Money and the Dominatrix... A question reserved for us
Gentlemen submissives, understand these few lines… You have never complained about the Footballer you are watching and who earns millions by practicing his passion… So why are you asking these questions to the Dominas?
On the other hand, despite the fact that we are superior, we still have bills to pay and do not live on love and fresh water.
Receiving a submission for an hour generally takes me 3 hours of my time. Because beyond the session, we have to prepare ourselves mentally and physically, that we set up the stage to welcome you. Oh yes ! Maybe a myth is collapsing but I don’t stay perched on 14cm heels for 12 hours 😅
When I welcome you, I always offer you a coffee, I chat with you, sometimes 30 minutes with beginners before starting the session…
And after the session, you go home. But have you asked the question of what I have left to do? You have to tidy up and clean the place, sterilize the toys used, change clothes, etc…
Okay Mistress, but why the offerings are so expensive ?
Also, I’ll speak for myself (I think most of my sisters are in the same boat) we’re not here to treat you like wallets spitting out an offering… We declare what we earn. First point, taxes, duties etc…
As can be seen, we buy toys that sometimes have a high cost, special outfits, all of this represents significant sums each month. As an illustration, a quality Latex outfit? Count between 300 and 500€!
Finally, as far as I’m concerned, I limit my days because I don’t want to host submissives on the chain. I think you have to be able to bring intense brain energy and be in great shape. By limiting the number of sessions in a day, the offerings are also limited accordingly.
Also, cleaning products, gloves, condoms, tights and outfits that you love so much… All this at a cost… Sometimes significant! Do you like to see me put on a nice leather dress? Tights that can’t be found in the supermarket?
Thank you Mistress but how to find a Dominatrix without offering and any money ?
In this case, by avoiding contacting Dominas on the net! And in a second step, carry out a deep introspection of oneself. Are your friends aware of this penchant for submission? If you hide yourself, I tell you right away, you will never find your happiness and this woman-mistress you so much desire to serve.
The man I’m with introduced me to the world of BDSM. We were just acquaintances and he detected this dominant character in me. He came to explain to me that he was submissive and offered to become his slave.
Of course, today I am a fulfilled Woman and a Mistress living from her passion.
To this end, sometimes you have to know how to take your courage in both hands and provoke fate in real life! That’s how you find a dominatrix who isn’t interested in money. Without doubt, you will find the love of an overbearing person and not the fantasy of what you have in mind…
