Thinking of a Mistress About Wearing a Chastity Device :
What’s my Mistress mindset about chastity device? Firstly it’s a real fantasy for some, punishments for others… The chastity cage takes a prominent place among many submissives. Through, But on the side of the Domina? Pure sadism, hidden pleasures of controlling or humiliating? Through this article I will try to bring my vision on imposed chastity.
Why decide to wear a chastity device ?
A true symbol of belonging to the handing over of phallic power to a woman, how could we, at first, define chastity?
Also in the context of a BDSM relationship, chastity is when a submissive, consenting, decides to give up his sexual pleasure in order to free himself from it and to rely on the will of his key-holder or his dominatrix. . 👠
Even so cages can take many forms; plastic, metal or silicone. As has been noted, The device is Compose by two parts: a ring surrounding the scrotum and a part composed of a tube in which the penis slips. The two parts are generally held by a perforated rod and allowing a padlock to be slipped there imprisoning the jewelry of the submissive according to the goodwill of the holder 😈🔐
The purpose of a chastity device :
As can be seen, we can find on the majority of BDSM and “vanilla” websites that the chastity is a miracle. Besides making man more loving, he would also be kinder. Certainly, it’s a miracle, the bugger man finally refocuses on the needs of his companion. The man who can no longer put his penis at the center of his life, would become… With this system immediately a perfect man by placing the desires of the woman at the center of this new life.
Yes quite. Yes… but actually no! If I put a cage to improve my couple relationship, there is already a problem. Basically, Yes, the man is going to place you in the center… in order… to be released… As soon as the system is removed, you will find the man only buys flowers for Valentine’s Day 🥀. Consequently, I consider that the installation of a chastity cage for this purpose is shakedown.
– “Honey, if you want to be released, be nice with me and clean up”
As shown above, a vanilla relationship, like a BDSM relationship, is made up of communication, respect and exchange. If I have to put a permanent cage on my submissives or my permanent slave so that they obey… finally, it is that they are not sub.
What I think about chastity device :
My Mistress mindset about chastity device. At this moment, you wonder why I like cages so much? At the present time, several of my submissives are caged. Firstly, I think you have to distinguish between fantasy and reality. I like to push you to your limits. And, that’s why, i like the chastity device ! But it is out of the question, in my opinion, to keep you in permanent chastity. Where would the game be and where would it stop?
(However i have already received requests where they wanted me to keep the submissive locked up ad vitam eternam. No way for me !) 🙄🤨
But for me, the cage is not a punishment and is not a tool for shakedown. In reality, it is a tool for redirecting your thoughts about yourself and around you. Like a kind of opening of the chakras 😁. Yes, a caged submissive is beautiful and it gives me power and control that I love very much! But it is precisely this control that helps me to help you! Hey yes, BDSM is give and take in my opinion.
When I put a submissive under chastity, I don’t ask him to take pictures at Zara while trying on a dress. I honestly don’t see any point in it. Besides, would you, dear readers, need a cage to do it? For some (you will recognize yourself if you read these lines and have already come to see me) you would even do it with a smile!
What is the purpose of a chastity cage then?
When I put a submissive in a cage, I make a global assessment of him, his life, his desires, his regrets. Often too focused on these fantasies, on masturbation, he is not fulfilled. Obviously, for me, the effect of the cage is here. An overweight submissive who hasn’t been able to lose his belly for months? Internally complex? With a cage and a release program based on weight loss, I assure you that I am doing great things in this area. My results are much better than Mediterranean cuisine, the Dunkan diet or any nutritionist! 100% of my submissions achieve their goal! 😎😁
I will also tell you the story of a submissive that I currently have under contract and who will recognize himself if he comes to read these few lines. Submissive for many years, he came across an unscrupulous domina who went way beyond his limits. Result: An operation and no more ejaculation for 2 years.
Caging for the first time with a language learning program. Following a total fulfillment of its objective, release. First ejaculation in two years. What a pleasure for me to see these improvements in my submissive and to see his satisfaction in his eyes 🤗😄
To Conclude about Thinking of a Mistress About Chastity Device :
To conclude, that’s my Mistress vision about Chastity Device. The cage is not a way to bend a submissive to my orders. If he comes to me, he knows that obedience to me is equivalent to the respect I have for him for his obedience.
I deeply love the submissives who come to serve me! It is inconceivable that I could put a cage for the sole purpose of making him more obedient. In reality, I tell myself that if I put a cage out of the game during the session to promote excitement, it’s because I can’t make myself obeyed. Honestly, I don’t think I need that!
I put a cage on because I’m not with the submissive in the evening at his place. I can’t hold his hand to improve aspects of his life. But knowing that he thinks of me because I manage thanks to this tool to make him lose weight, open the business of his dreams, focus on his children, learn a language, that’s the most beautiful gifts and that’s why I use this tool!
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Where to get a chastity cage ?
For me, nothing beats the work of artisans or renowned brands. I can only recommend these few sites:
For European Union :
- Aken’s cages: A French reference ➡ Click here
- La Prison de Morgane – Made to Measure ➡ Click here
